I don’t know about you, but I get really stuck when it comes to dressing for a wedding. There are so many rules around being a guest. Don’t wear white, you’re not the bride. Don’t wear black, it’s not a funeral. And wearing red is a sure-fire way to look like you’re trying really hard to upstage the bride. So with all those invites stacking up on the fridge, let us unpack some do’s and don’ts of wedding outfit attire.
DON’T…
Be afraid to wear bright and bold colour. Yellow, ochre and red are rumoured to be this seasons LBD. If you’re worried about wearing red to a wedding, incorporate splashes of pink and white into your accessories for an off-centre fashion-forward look.
DON’T…
Wear heels that you haven’t worn in enough to be comfortable. Strappy sandals with block heels can be surprisingly chic as well as mules in pastel hues or two-tone pumps
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DO…
Opt for statement jewellery if your attire is more minimal. If you prefer to go big on earrings, think sparkly chandeliers or bright bold earrings with grandiose geometric shapes.
DO…
Be daring when picking a handbag. Whimsical beaded pouches, embellished crossbody bags and illustrated clutch bags are all chic ways to jazz up your ensemble.
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DON’T…
Shy away from darker colours but opt for louder textures and splashes of metallic. Crochet, sheer, fringe, sparkles, sequins, ruffles and pleats, can all look extremely tasteful and polished with the right silhouette and styling.
DON’T…
Always go straight for the mini or maxi dress. The midi dress is a sleek option too. For a playful vibe, polka dots work a charm. Silk slips are also remarkably easy to dress up and don’t have to look like lingerie.
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DO…
Reach for a jumpsuit. I like to think of them as a dress’s edgier cousin. Again – wear a pop of colour to transform a look from casual to cocktail. Wide leg styles with halter necklines suggest a retro vibe, especially when teamed with statement earrings and wedges. For a more modern look, opt for slim, tailored cuts matched with delicate jewellery and heeled sandals.
DO…
Colour coordinate if you are going with a plus one. For no other reason then why not! If George and Amal Clooney do it, I say it’s good enough for you too.
DO…
Consider the weather. A tailored blazer styled as a cape can finish off a look. A jacket stolen from your other half…not so much. Outerwear doesn’t have to be an afterthought when it comes to wedding guest attire; it can actually be one of the hero pieces in your outfit.
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DON’T…
Stress about being too matchy-matchy, this season that’s what it’s all about. Invest in a sleek co-ord or pastel suit that can be worn together or as separates. Suits are timeless, so you’ll be able to wear them again for a variety of occasions.
DON’T…
Forget to check out the dress code. Some religions call for more conservative attire, so be respectful and ask around. A dress code can be a very important factor to a bride and groom and their family. Take it seriously and if in doubt, reach out to the bride!
DON’T…
Worry about wearing the same dress twice, wedding season can be expensive and outfit repeating isn’t a cardinal sin if you do it thoughtfully.
It is a universally acknowledged truth that finding something to wear to a wedding where you are a guest is one of the hardest sartorial endeavours known to humankind — so follow these simple do’s and don’ts and let us inspire you. A stress- free wedding season? That’s Amore.
Eve – Australian Bridal Service
Wedding & Trends Editor